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What is Abuse?

Abuse is the attempt by one person to control another using fear, violence or intimidation.
Abuse is not just physical. It may also be emotional, sexual and financial.

Physical Abuse

  • Punching, kicking, shoving or dragging
  • Slapping, biting or pulling your hair
  • Holding you against your will
  • Using a weapon or other objects to threaten or hurt you

Emotional Abuse

  • Threatening to take your children away from you
  • Threatening to commit suicide or murder
  • Threatening to withdraw immigration sponsorship or to have you deported
  • Controlling your time, what you do, how you dress and how you wear your hair
  • Always swearing at you, calling you crazy, fat, dumb and stupid

Sexual Abuse is:

  • Sexual acts with children
  • Not letting you say “no” to sex
  • Unwanted touching
  • Rape
  • Sexual Harassment
  • Forcing you to watch pornography

Financial Abuse

  • Controlling how you spend money, where you work
  • Spending all family money including your money or savings
  • Using credit cards without your permission; destroying your credit rating
  • Forcing you to turn over your benefit payments
  • Forcing you to account for every penny

It is a crime to abuse someone physically or sexually!